Rayshad Holmes
Interviewed by: Lauretta Pierce
A - Wow! I'm still trying to figure that out myself! In all seriousness, I am a young man focused on making a difference in the lives of those that I am fortunate to meet. I am also an avid reader; frequent traveler
and I enjoy spending time with friends and family. My goal is to become a business professor and to this end, I will soon begin my Ph.D. coursework at George Washington University. At my best, I think that
I am a role model to the young and old and I illustrate how God can take a little effort and multiply it into an awesome blessing. Did I mention
that I am a comedian as well?
A - Initially, the motivation for this book stemmed from countless
conversations that I had with my friends about failed relationships,
broken promises and the like. At times I got frustrated because it
seemed as if no one was heeding my advice. After several failed
relationships, broken promises and shattered dreams that I experienced,
I didn't want anyone connected to me to experience the same. And so,
I
began a quest to empower my friends and associates to make better
choices and find the love that each of us desire. Surprisingly, I
have
found the love that I needed and many of them have as well. So, I
guess
that suggests that my plan worked!
A - While some of the book contains pieces that represent situations that I have faced personally, most of the material
in the book including the various types of love that we can encounter came from a wealth of resources including interviews, discussions and other literature. I am sure that in my 25 years of life, I have not seen all there is to see with regard to this provocative subject.
However, I am confident that I have seen enough to know how to
effectively handle whatever comes my way.
A - It's so funny that you should ask because I feel
certain that this book along with each workshop I lead and each life
that I speak into is my ministry. I strive to represent God in all
that
I do and I hope that my steps motivate someone else to do the same,
only
a little bit better. When most people talk about ministry, they think
it only pertains to those that preach. My view is a little different.
I feel strongly that every day of my life is ministry and the hugs, the
talks, the books that I write and the interactions that I have with
others is my ministry. So, in short, Yes!
A - At present, I have completed two books and I am working
on two books concurrently! One book, Bring It, will be released by
the
end of the year. The other book will be in print by summer 2004. In
addition, three selections of my work were chosen for inclusion and
publication by Judson Press chose three selections of my work for
inclusion and publication in its second volume of From One Brother to
Another.
A - As most
writers will concur, the mood and urgency to write is dependent upon so
many variables that it is often times, extremely difficult to identify
the optimal climate for writing. My moods seem to vacillate from
airplanes cruising at thirty thousand feet to the tranquility of my
home. It depends on so much and if I ever get it nailed down to one
particular place, I'll probably write fifty more books!
A - This book took nine months of blood pressure, sweat and tears but alas,
it is done and I am quite proud of the manuscript. I re-read it
sometimes and learn more myself!
A - I can honestly admit that each reader will take away something
completely different from the book, mainly because while each of us
wants to be loved, our experiences and quest to find love may be quite
different. Judging from the responses that I continue to receive from
readers thus far, this book has helped them reassess their present
situation and clarify other areas in their lives where they needed some
advice. Still others have read the book, passed it on to countless
others and been forced to buy a second copy because the first book
contained so many highlights and marginal notes that it was no longer
readable. Clearly, many are becoming wiser and more prudent in their
"love" search and for this alone, I am forever thankful!
Looking for Love in All the Wrong
Faces
May 21, 2003
Q - What inspired you to write "Looking for Love in All the Wrong Faces?"
Q - Were your life experiences the source you used to identify the different types of love?
Q - Your writing is very inspiring. Have you ever thought about
going into ministry?
Q - How many books have you written? Are you currently working on
another book?
Q - What type of atmosphere do you require to write?
Q - How long did it take you to write Looking for Love in All the
Wrong Faces?
Q - What message would you like readers to receive from reading "Looking for Love in All the Wrong Faces?"